I’ve been really inspired lately with fellow bloggers opening up about their daily lives, ups & downs and everyday stuff like fitness and dating. So this new feature, Wednesday On The Web, is something I hope will evolve into a sort of “check in” here at Belle Belle. This week, I can almost feel Spring in the air but it is still annoyingly chilly. So, I am relishing my last couple of days of wearing scarfs and boots while reflecting on what’s in store.
I know I have mentioned reflection and new beginnings here a couple times recently. I’ve had a harder time than expected in getting the ball rolling on fresh content. But I think a new season does invite a change in routine. I’ve also learned a couple things about myself over the past couple of weeks. And those tidbits are certain to usher in a change.
First, I’ll be honest. I fell hard for a guy over the holidays. And he didn’t treat me well. I think I bent over backwards to make something work for over three months. It seems everyone but me knew the writing was on the wall. I’m betting many of you can understand that sometimes we are the last to notice something so obvious. This past weekend, I finally put him out of my life, albeit with not the utmost of grace, but it was done. And while I live in a freakishly small town with an even smaller social circle and that means running into him, at least emotionally I have shut that door. Having that toxicity out of my daily thoughts and in my heart already is adding a skip to my step.
Second, I finally had a physical – it had been years. I think females are in a bit of a conundrum because so often gynecologists don’t perform comprehensive check-ups. We are susceptible to thinking our annual trip to the GYN covers it. While I know some do, my gynecologist certainly hadn’t performed a full physical and frankly none of mine ever had. The only thing they ever tested were thyroid levels – I have been treated for hypothyroidism for eight years. What really blew me away was at this physical, I was told for the first time that the treatment for this condition can put you at serious risk for osteoporosis. I’ve noted to keep up weight-bearing exercise and those all important calcium supplements.
We moved onto blood tests for cholesterol, kidney function, vitamin levels along with the rest of the gamut. Most importantly, I am incredibly healthy but with a couple surprises. I was low in both vitamin D and B12 and now am on new medications to help with that. My diet, especially lately, is very healthy. The conclusion is this can be a genetic condition. Both cause fatigue and can lead to serious problems down the road. I am thrilled to know this info and educate myself about both conditions. And treating them will make me feel even better.
So, part of my motivation to get personal here is a sort of PSA. I know with busy lives, it is hard to take care of ourselves, both emotionally and physically. If your GYN isn’t giving you a full physical every couple of years, I encourage you to see a family doctor. I know it changed things for me! And if you are living with a person in your life that doesn’t treat you well, kick that guy or girl to the curb. 🙂
Some other advice and wisdom I’ve found around the web this week:
Completely stellar advice on how to live in your 30s.
Swing by this beauty/nutrition blog – I adore the beautiful images and no nonsense advice.
Love this fresh face for Spring from Victoria and Erin!
And please feel free to let me know if you enjoy (or dislike) these kinds of posts. I’m open to constructive criticism – just be gentle 🙂
Love this reminder! Thanks for caring enough to share! And that’s too bad about the guy, but bravo to you for standing up for yourself and putting a stop to that.
Thanks, Adiel! He wasn’t worth it anyway. And glad that my reminder came in handy. Hope all is well with you! xo
We often take our health for granted and this is excellent reminder that we can’t always do that! Looks like it’s time for me to get a physical too — I’m glad that overall your doing well. As for the guy, good for you to move on. I know it’s not easy but so worth it! Heartbreak is the worst, but bubbly and girlfriends make it better 🙂
I have been putting off going to the eye doctor for…years! I totally need to just GO! Thanks for the reminder.
Hi Lindsay… thanks so much for choosing to link me! 🙂
I’ve also really been putting off getting a blood test, and I really need to get one! You’ve inspired me to get on the ball with that. xo
You’re welcome, Alica! Glad I could inspire a little TLC for yourself 🙂
I love these posts Lindsay! I always love when bloggers open up about their “real lives”. It helps us connect and relate with each other. What I’ve found is when I do open up and get more personal on my blog that the simple act of just writing it down seems to lift a bit of weight off my shoulders.
I’m glad you got your physical and found out about your vitamin deficiencies before it became a problem. With our busy lives, many of us neglect going to the doctor, which is something we should never do. Also, good for you for putting that guy out of your life. No one deserves to or should stay with someone who makes them feel bad and unhappy. It’s hard (I know, I’ve been there) but ultimately is the best thing to do in the end.
Keep these posts up girl! 😉
Love this blog!!! Great new products & coloring tips for spring.
Most of all, you opening up & giving us girls a new fabulous way
to think of ourselves !!!
I adore you…
Aw, thanks M! I adore you too! xoxo